OK, so this blog is about my honest experience with day to day life in Taiwan. I am going to honest with you –– today was a terrible day until the end. So bare with me here, it’s perfectly ok for me to have bad days, this is actually my first one in Taiwan. I am very happy with my overall experience in Taiwan, but these things do happen and bad days creep up on you. This post is going to act a cathartic tool for me as well. If you don’t want to read it, no hard feelings. We’ll be back with our regular program tomorrow. Ok, on with the show.
Waking up I had managed to forget my alarm but that wasn’t bad I woke up about eight. I munch on a few snacks I had been given. Nothing was really happening so I went back to sleep for a few hours. I got up again and decided to go get breakfast/lunch. And that’s when life started falling apart. I backed up because I figured I’d head over to Shida after I ate, my backpack when fully load is a good weight on my back. Not uncomfortable but in this heat it makes me sweat like a pig. My first issue is I had not really been shown around GongGuan. Everyone kept talking about awesome food a breakfast but had not shown me or even remotely pointed me in any direction other than the casual “go that way”. So I did not find food because I was unaware of where to look. I be came overly frustrated and just decided to head to Shida because I know where I can find food there.

I ended up getting turned around trying to find the bus station and walked in a giant circle. Mildly irritated and incredible sweaty I caught the bus to Shida. I found a restaurant that i have eaten at before, but for whatever reason the people seemed mildly disturbed that I had come into the shop. I’m pretty sure they had just opened and weren’t expecting customers for a while. I sat down and studied while I ate. Then I left giving the lady a compliment on how good the food was, she promptly ignored me. I headed over to the school. So apparently yesterday the air conditioning broke so instead of heading in a cooling down the longer I sat there the hotter I got. That’s just life here I wasn’t too bothered by the eat.
Class itself wasn’t too bad. I was in a mood though and it felt like Laoshi was absolutely railing me for pronunciation. She was and that’s her job, I am not mad about that I just wasn’t in a very good state of mind to learn and take direction. Class ended with the test which I actually appreciated, loaded up with homework, I swung by the 7/11 to pull out cash. I met up with Jillian and Nick so we could go to dinner. And then my foul mood turned worse as i had a moment to think about everything. I was stewing in my own loops of frustration and irritation. In talking with Nick and Jillian I realized that my biggest problem was I didn’t know the area I was living in. I was comfortable in Shida and now had been forcibly removed to a place that was essentially more inconvenient.
Well we arrived and I went to go open the door only to find out that my card was not working. I couldn’t get into my dorm. Sean had mentioned something about the post office so I tried going there to see if we could get my card working. Turns out the post office was already closed and the one lady who was just leaving didn’t understand what I was asking for and couldn’t help. And then I had a break down. This was more an internal breakdown though there were some tears shed, for a moment I really could handle anything. Jillian and Nick however walked back to the dorm and we essentially waited until someone was heading out. Jillian and I immediately went to the front office. The woman working there didn’t speak English but essentially we mimed and pigeon Mandarin-ed our way through. After a two minute call my card was up and working just fine. And I suddenly felt much better, it was the first thing to go right all day. I dropped off my bag and headed out to go get dinner.

Nick gave both of Jillian and I a tour of the area. One quick turn and suddenly there were shops of food everywhere. I have even found breakfast places open before 10am!! (In this country that’s a bloody miracle.) Nick walked us around in true tour guide fashion and we munched our way to dinner. I was feeling significantly more comfortable with life at that point. We sat down and had an yummy dinner that involved an egg and rice. I chatted with my lovely companions and was able to relax and just unwind from the day. We also stopped at the cheap ice cream place and I got peanut butter and red bean ice cream. Surprisingly delicious though next time I’ll probably go for the fruit flavors.
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I headed home feeling again like a human being. I was able to get all my homework done and had my Thai roommate, Meiling, checked it over. I did pretty well only a few tired mistakes. Today was long, but I am able to learn from the day. First, I needed to eat more regularly spaced meals, I am pretty sure I was low blood sugar all day, which is a terrible idea; just ask my mother, she has horror stories about these things. I can not operate without food. Two, when arriving in a new place I need to ask more specific questions and orient myself as quickly as possible. Getting vague direction doesn’t cut it, I need to locate at least one shop for breakfast and for lunch. Three, there are some epic people in my life willing to help me through the rough patches in my life, and four bad things sometimes happen and it’s ok. The thing that is not ok is dwelling on it and making it harder for me to function. I am going to take this day and chalk it up to experience. Tomorrow I know, will be infinitely better. So I will see you all tomorrow, big smiles. Life always manages to work itself out!
